DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do. After years of working, my job situation changed, and I stopped handling important tasks, including paying my taxes. I know I need to get back on track, but I can’t seem to shake this feeling of irresponsibility. What steps do you suggest I take to turn things around? — No More Hiding
DEAR NO MORE HIDING: Kudos to you for recognizing your dilemma. The first step toward resolution is facing it head-on. Begin by addressing your taxes. You can start by requesting an extension online, which will kickstart the process.
If you’ve missed filing for multiple years, your extension request may not be granted, but it’s essential to signal your commitment to making things right. Consider seeking guidance and support from a local IRS office to help you navigate the process.
If feasible, hiring a tax professional or debt advisor could also be beneficial. Once you tackle this aspect of your life, you’ll experience a sense of relief.
DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m feeling torn between two romantic prospects. An old college crush who now resides in Japan recently reached out, suggesting we meet for coffee. However, I’ve also been developing feelings for a new admirer. Should I agree to meet my former crush? — Should I Go?
DEAR SHOULD I GO?: Take a moment to assess your feelings for your current romantic interest. Are they genuine, and can you envision a future with them?
If so, consider giving them a chance. However, if you’re still uncertain about your new admirer, meeting with your former crush for coffee could provide clarity, but proceed with caution. Distinguish between a passing crush and the potential for a meaningful commitment. Ultimately, prioritize your emotions and what you desire in a relationship.